Last updated: October 2026

In a Tuscan city, you can get by in English. In a hill village, you’ll often have to give it a go in Italian.

Don’t worry about getting it perfect. A cheerful buongiorno and a go at the rest gets you a long way. People really do appreciate the effort.

Here are the phrases I’d learn first.

Saying hello (and goodbye)

In a village, you greet everyone. The man on the bench, the lady at the window, the people in the bar. Every time.

ItalianSay itMeans
Buongiornobwon-JOR-noGood morning, good day
Buonaserabwona-SAIR-aGood evening (from the afternoon on)
SalveSAL-vayHello (polite, any time)
CiaochowHi, bye (friends and family)
Arrivedercia-ree-vay-DAIR-cheeGoodbye
A domania do-MAH-neeSee you tomorrow
Come sta?KOH-may STAHow are you? (polite)
Bene, grazie. E Lei?BEN-ay GRAHTS-ee-ay, ay LAYFine, thanks. And you?

Use ciao with people you know. With older neighbours and shopkeepers, stick to buongiorno and buonasera.

Being polite

ItalianSay itMeans
Per favorepair fa-VOR-ayPlease
Grazie (mille)GRAHTS-ee-ay (MEE-lay)Thank you (very much)
PregoPRAY-goYou’re welcome, after you, go ahead
ScusiSKOO-zeeExcuse me, sorry
Permessopair-MESS-oExcuse me (coming through, or coming into someone’s house)
Non parlo bene l’italianonon PAR-lo BEN-ay lee-tal-YAH-noI don’t speak Italian well
Parla inglese?PAR-la een-GLAY-zayDo you speak English?
Piano, per favorePYAH-noSlowly, please

Permesso is a lovely one. Say it as you step into someone’s home, or squeeze past someone in a narrow lane.

At the bar

ItalianMeans
Un caffè, per favoreAn espresso, please
Un cappuccinoA cappuccino (in the morning!)
Un bicchiere di vino rosso / biancoA glass of red / white wine
Un’acqua naturale / frizzanteStill / sparkling water
Quant’è?How much is it?
Il conto, per favoreThe bill, please
Posso pagare con la carta?Can I pay by card?

A caffè is an espresso. If you want something longer, ask for a caffè americano. More on bar etiquette in my money and tipping guide.

At the market or the alimentari

ItalianMeans
Vorrei…I’d like…
Un etto di…100 grams of…
Due etti di prosciutto200 grams of ham
Mezzo chilo di pomodoriHalf a kilo of tomatoes
Un po’ di più / di menoA bit more / a bit less
Basta così, grazieThat’s enough, thanks
Quanto costa?How much does it cost?
Sto solo guardandoI’m just looking

Ham and cheese are sold by the etto (100 grams). Ask for “due etti” and you’ll sound like a local. Then go and find a market from my market days guide.

A little blue Ape van parked in a stone lane in Aramo
My "Ape in Aramo", photographed June 2018

Neighbours and village chat

ItalianMeans
Che bel paese!What a lovely village!
Siamo qui per una settimanaWe’re here for a week
Abitiamo in InghilterraWe live in England
Che caldo! / Che freddo!It’s so hot! / It’s so cold!
PioveIt’s raining
Che bella giornata!What a lovely day!
Il gatto è suo?Is that your cat?

Talk about the weather. It works in Tuscany too.

And if a cat adopts you, the village will know before you do. Read about the cats of the Tuscan villages.

Finding things and opening times

ItalianMeans
Dov’è…?Where is…?
la piazza / la chiesa / la farmaciathe square / the church / the pharmacy
A che ora apre? / chiude?What time does it open? / close?
È aperto? / È chiuso?Is it open? / Is it closed?
Mi sono perso (persa)I’m lost (said by a man / a woman)

At the festa

ItalianMeans
A che ora inizia la festa?What time does the festa start?
Buon appetito!Enjoy your meal!
Cin cin! / Salute!Cheers!
È buonissimo!It’s delicious!
Un altro, per favoreAnother one, please

You’ll need that last one at a sagra. Trust me. See my sagre month by month for where to go.

Little words you’ll hear all the time

  • Allora… Well, so, right then. Italians start half their sentences with it.
  • Dai! Come on! Go on!
  • Boh. I dunno. Usually with a shrug.
  • Magari! If only! I wish!
  • Pazienza. Oh well, never mind. A very useful attitude in Italy.
  • Piano piano. Slowly slowly, bit by bit. The pace of village life.

In an emergency

ItalianMeans
Aiuto!Help!
Chiamate un’ambulanza!Call an ambulance!
Ho bisogno di un medicoI need a doctor

The emergency number is 112. My useful numbers guide has the rest.

A note on Tuscan

Tuscans have a famous way of speaking. Between vowels, a hard “c” often turns into a soft breathy “h”. So la casa (the house) can sound like “la hasa”, and Coca-Cola becomes something like “Hoha-Hola”. It’s called the gorgia toscana. Don’t try to copy it. Just enjoy it.

A ginger cat lying on a wall with the village of Castelvecchio on the hillside behind
A ginger cat, with Castelvecchio behind

And don’t be shy. Have a go, smile, and point if you have to. Buona fortuna! (Good luck!)

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